I was reading a Dear Abby that talked about how jewelry commercials raise the bar too far for men and set unrealistic expectations in women. I agree, they probably do. But do I smile at the "I love this woman!" commercial? Yes.
Todd is good about making me feel appreciated and loved, and he surprises me and shows me he loves me. Surprise flowers are great, and I always melt just a bit when I see he's made the bed. Do I need him to slip a diamond bracelet on my hand while we're stopped at a red light? Not really. Because in real life, the little things someone does to show he loves you are so much sweeter.
Yesterday I was gathering my purse to go to work, and I saw a fresh pack of gum ha
d been placed in my purse. I looked in the other pack and, yup, there was only one piece of gum left. Todd had noticed I needed gum and had gotten a new pack and put it in my purse. I loved it. It was such a random sweet thing for him to do, showing that he pays attention not only to my neurotic habits, but also to my needs. The little things truly are the key to romance.Would I love a one-time diamond gift? Sure. But would I rather have a husband who constantly pays attention to me and tries to make me happy? Absolutely.
I'd love to hear (i.e. read) the rest of you gush about your husbands or boyfriends (and then maybe mention it to him when he comes home from work tonight).
